“Why won’t he kiss me?” 5 reasons to check on
You are dating this great guy, you are really enjoying time together and it seems like he is interested in you romantically as well. But the time goes by and he still didn’t kiss you. Everything seems perfect but the question “Why won’t he kiss me” comes to your mind constantly.
Don’t panic. It doesn’t mean that it’s something wrong with you. Better check out these reasons to understand why doesn’t he make the first move.
That wasn’t the right moment
The right moment is very important for the first kiss. Maybe all your previous dates had been in very crowded places or it wasn’t romantic enough to kiss you. Give him one more chance and create the atmosphere that will be perfect for your first kiss.
You were giving him “bad” signs
You might be surprised but a lot of guys are actually very thoughtful about such things as body language signs. They might even not know it themselves but if they feel that you don’t feel right about kissing right now or they see that you are not interested in this that much, they will stop themselves from kissing you. At least, you can change that easily! Just give him signs that you are ready to be closer to him: gentle touch, long glance, lip biting… He should get this hints and make his move.
He is not sure about you
Maybe you still don’t know each other well and he is not sure if this relationship will work out. It’s okay that he doesn’t want to rush and you should give him some time. Maybe you also should think about your relationship twice. It’s better to realize that something is not okay on the first steps than after a long time together.
He is not over his ex
We know it’s bad to start a new relationship when you are still not over your ex. But sometimes it happens and you wish that this new relationship will help you to forget about your ex. Though, it doesn’t usually work as we want and the ghosts from your past may follow you even in a new relationship. If this is the problem, try to give him some time and space to realize if he really wants to be with you.
It’s not really a date
It’s quite common that a lot of guys get friendzoned by girls. But it also works vice versa. So, screen your past dates once again and think once more: were they really dates? Maybe you are just hanging out together as friends and he doesn’t know that you are expecting him to kiss you. The best thing for you to do is to clear things up. Maybe it will change his mind and consider you as his possible future girlfriend.
There might be many reasons why he doesn’t kiss you, but if you want to develop this relationship maybe you should be the one to make the first move.